TEN STAGES ON-MOBILE:Dreams and traumatic experiences are similar.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzy8LxSapkqNGTKOm0Gd4vr9pOBa60J1v-Tw-WXz6cR7rJTTttDLaZ2NZDKKdmgStku6L2RB0EjUA0Myq3-u1CeN5pPW8WxyInVt6JypIBaG7qZsD6zyQB8Mf1DzuQmXQ9FPdm4WwXgWBN/s1600/tenstage+onmobile.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzy8LxSapkqNGTKOm0Gd4vr9pOBa60J1v-Tw-WXz6cR7rJTTttDLaZ2NZDKKdmgStku6L2RB0EjUA0Myq3-u1CeN5pPW8WxyInVt6JypIBaG7qZsD6zyQB8Mf1DzuQmXQ9FPdm4WwXgWBN/s320/tenstage+onmobile.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />Dreams and traumatic experiences are similar.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Both involve intense emotion, though in traumatic experiences the emotion results from external stimuli, whereas in dreams it comes from internal flashbacks of the split-off trauma we carry in our psyche. No surprise that adults and children with Post traumatic Stress Disorder often have terrible flashbacks in their dreams.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Both involve periods of dissociation. Many trauma victims emotionally “fly away” in their minds to escape the horror they are experiencing. Not surprisingly, flying dreams are common.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Both are connected with our parents. Our parents in childhood are our primary traumatizers, because when we were children they had more power over us than will anyone later in our life. It’s no surprise that parents, either overtly or covertly, symbolise so much in dreams, especially when our primary traumas start to bubble up.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Both are connected with psychosis. Extreme traumatic experiences can cause psychosis, whereas dreams themselves are nothing more than psychosis during sleep. And the most traumatized people do their dreaming while awake – by hallucinating and having delusions.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Both involve denial. Society denies all but the most intense traumas and minimizes the rest; most people do the same with their dreams. In this vein, most people believe they had a happy, non-traumatic childhood; these are the same people who wish you “sweet dreams” at night.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Both involve the repetition compulsion. We compulsively replicate our unresolved traumas in an attempt to heal them. Likewise, we often have repeats of the same dreams – or dream themes.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Both rupture the borders of our personality. Traumatic experiences force their way through the psyche like a nail through a board, whereas dreams are the psyche’s attempt to pull the nail out of the board.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />As such, both involve the essence of our life’s process. Traumatic experiences destroy life; dreams hope to reclaim it.</span>

TEN STAGES ON-MOBILE:Dreams and traumatic experiences are similar.

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Becoming a Stager doesn’t mean you are a pushover.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi81sC-_gy1TrlC2qsDFpQtfYBrsNcAmqD7jSPNg353W0QO0m3QAdxLQyU5p1tk-CBlXm8WGs03G7pIQdYNJFNKG3hRXEIu7gzRcjYW0Y1Co79rLn_-aIBWtAIxBu1uPn9LLPwpbehnoZR1/s1600/download+%25282%2529.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="118" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi81sC-_gy1TrlC2qsDFpQtfYBrsNcAmqD7jSPNg353W0QO0m3QAdxLQyU5p1tk-CBlXm8WGs03G7pIQdYNJFNKG3hRXEIu7gzRcjYW0Y1Co79rLn_-aIBWtAIxBu1uPn9LLPwpbehnoZR1/s320/download+%25282%2529.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><br /><br /> <span style="font-size: large;">Becoming a Stager doesn’t mean you are a pushover. In fact, many times the loving-kindness and compassionate thing to do is to set boundaries.<br /><br /> <br /><br />As with everything we talk about here in our Stagers hangouts, the key is balance. Too many boundaries and you close off; no boundaries and we lose ourselves.<br /><br /> <br /><br />As Stagers continues to grow, time is getting slimmer and slimmer. And more people are asking for Stagers hangout time.<br /><br /> <br /><br /> We have to learn the valuable lessons: of compassion and boundaries of loving-kindness.<br /><br /> <br /><br />One of the most challenging lessons we have had to learn was the lesson of giving TOO MUCH away to others.  We have become so focused on this other person’s recovery and ideas that we were ignoring our own recovery.<br /><br /> <br /><br />As a result, resentment built up within us and we then projected it onto other stagers. we became pissed off once more. we thought at the time we were pissed off because other stagers were not seeing us, but the truth is, we were not seeing ourselves for who we really were or what we really wanted. So, it was through lack of contact with our child within that our lives became once more out of balance.<br /><br /> <br /><br />This is a painful and crippling lesson for us to learn emotionally, physically,  and financially. We once more become bankrupt across the board. It was ironic because we were promoting a message of compassion, but we didn’t have any for ourselves.<br /><br />Of course it is in giving that we receive, but that starts with ourselves.<br /><br /> <br /><br />If we are not full, we will have nothing to give away. We learned that boundaries are very important. We learned that we had to be in contact with our intuitive voice before we could be fulfilling in any relationship .<br /><br /> <br /><br />We learned this lesson through pain, but it has since become a path of joy. Our ego hates the transformation from that dark place of the hidden child within to our life now, but each time my ego got mad, my child within celebrated its pathway to freedom.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Now, we are living our recovery. which we started through contacting our child within, then grew from giving that loving-kindness away and is sustained by a balance of giving to ourselves and to others. We have never experienced more consistent joy in our lives as a result of those painful childhood years and we would do them all over again if we had to, because on the other side, life becomes beautiful and sweet.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Are you living your life for others and abandoning your child within in the process?</span></span><div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/06/the-key-to-loving-kindness-practice-is.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; 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Our Recovery is going to fill a large part of your life

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgDOqtbdGgn9nKUnQQ1miondX4kHKd0ffRfrCevjgGu3s3waeDAzhYwS1eCAS-wfxFgWTSWgCJZdVzoQeD2LZ_3BhpLEJGjorYbWzMiSgY_WqEJ3Fi3Bzt2IMTmYmO_8BYn1bZNnuR8rWu/s1600/1-socialmotion.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="104" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgDOqtbdGgn9nKUnQQ1miondX4kHKd0ffRfrCevjgGu3s3waeDAzhYwS1eCAS-wfxFgWTSWgCJZdVzoQeD2LZ_3BhpLEJGjorYbWzMiSgY_WqEJ3Fi3Bzt2IMTmYmO_8BYn1bZNnuR8rWu/s320/1-socialmotion.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Our Recovery is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great recovery work. And the only way to do great recovery work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.</span>

Our Recovery is going to fill a large part of your life

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We were all born powerful beings. Let us step into that power today and declare our worthiness as already existing.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2pHaLMcebrK9YPOk0FpGM7VKhC9kVoPmMUAx5fIgPQUQE-ZAp7ZJkcTlS4gvJfX2d3jyjaHT1I-IXmT9sKTfzVKWT3OczEGj14l374zfHypUA8uRmDM7qHlNDIXoLHnuMQU7Ccm4xFoxL/s1600/1-proxp.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="129" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2pHaLMcebrK9YPOk0FpGM7VKhC9kVoPmMUAx5fIgPQUQE-ZAp7ZJkcTlS4gvJfX2d3jyjaHT1I-IXmT9sKTfzVKWT3OczEGj14l374zfHypUA8uRmDM7qHlNDIXoLHnuMQU7Ccm4xFoxL/s320/1-proxp.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><br /><br /><span style="font-size: large;">We must remember our child within. Today we are stronger than our circumstances.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We can influence and transcend our environment.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Our natural ability to reason plus the intuition we were born with are invaluable tools that can help to bring us out of undesired circumstances.<br /><br /> <br /><br />One major issue that holds a lot of Stagers back is the belief that they are not worthy to receive something better. Before anything of greater value can come into our lives we must begin to believe we are worthy of people, circumstances and a life that has greater value. If we are keeping ourselves stuck in an abusive or toxic relationship, what will begin to change that is our thoughts and belief that we are worthy of happiness within our relationships.<br /><br /> <br /><br />If we lack the wisdom of our intuitive voice, the belief that we are more valuable is core to changing our beliefs and situation. Once we have the thoughts and beliefs of our child within, then we can begin to take action.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Action from this place may look like breaking up with persons we are in a toxic relationship with. It may look like continuing our education to learn greater skills that will set us free financially.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Action might also look like moving, either to a new part of town, or to a whole new city or country.<br /><br /> <br /><br />It is in our thoughts of unworthiness that we create a life that is out of harmony with what we truly desire. Slowly, day by day, as we connect to our child within our thoughts turn from unworthiness of our past history to worthiness of a freed child, from doubting our dreams and intuition to believing, we will begin to take subtle different actions. These actions will eventually add up one at a time until we don't even recognize our life anymore.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We all want something to change in our lives. We want to grow into recovery.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We want to evolve. We want to understand and be understood.<br /><br />We must begin by acknowledging our child within. We are not worthy because of a degree, an honor or a grade. We are all equally worthy to live this kind of elevated lifestyle because we are all understood children. We must each realise that we are already were born worthy and then begin to take action from this place of already being worthy, while at the same time honour the worthiness of everyone else child within we meet.<br /><br /> <br />We were all born powerful beings. 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Meditation-based interventions delivered on-line at Hangouts

<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"> </span><br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJRhg2DaGOrx2dT5dFhrfKc3wjwd46CnsCe-90RSVx_MxVLTwLEGzx26vjC3NA47yMkB5BZwgmqhEQsHhx4MtUx89fkv-Jo3RultpVjatnemPb9Ti24slilDJTVV_lTU_vEHjohsDBNl0_/s1600/1-haiku.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="155" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJRhg2DaGOrx2dT5dFhrfKc3wjwd46CnsCe-90RSVx_MxVLTwLEGzx26vjC3NA47yMkB5BZwgmqhEQsHhx4MtUx89fkv-Jo3RultpVjatnemPb9Ti24slilDJTVV_lTU_vEHjohsDBNl0_/s320/1-haiku.jpg" width="320" /></a></span></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"> New research also shows that meditation-based interventions delivered on-line can produce behavioural and neural changes. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Google Hangouts is a communication platform developed by Google which includes instant messaging, video chat,SMS and VOIP features. It replaces three messaging products that Google had implemented concurrently within its services, including Google Talk, Google+ Messenger (formerly: Huddle), and Hangouts, a video chat system present within Google+. Google has also stated that Hangouts is designed to be "the future" of its telephony product, Google Voice, and integrated some of the capabilities of Google Voice into Hangouts. In current versions of Android, Hangouts is the default application for text messaging.</span>

Meditation-based interventions delivered on-line at Hangouts

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The Ten Stages, Recovering Relationships and Cyberiety are supporting an interactive method of contacting our members worldwide

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgM4LyB1izccW0JOf7IQZ_rEo8uaZ48Z9eTunsUt1UoGJjPx_x7vRLMwnB-CDCPlPC7_asJnjbm8Uu4U0l16VFrgIbLKYNXDMND1L6ZjP-MJfWGdZN_WRNTMglHu0Fdxs352uI3v8eOcVFF/s1600/teamworking.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="226" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgM4LyB1izccW0JOf7IQZ_rEo8uaZ48Z9eTunsUt1UoGJjPx_x7vRLMwnB-CDCPlPC7_asJnjbm8Uu4U0l16VFrgIbLKYNXDMND1L6ZjP-MJfWGdZN_WRNTMglHu0Fdxs352uI3v8eOcVFF/s320/teamworking.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;">The Ten Stages, Recovering Relationships and Cyberiety are supporting an interactive method of contacting our members worldwide in forums,course work, studies and webinars.</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/06/every-30-years-or-so-in-recovery-we.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/346249287_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/06/every-30-years-or-so-in-recovery-we.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Every 30 Years or So in Recovery We Experience These Gigantic Steps Forward. and the Ten Stages May Well Be It.. .</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/06/the-ten-stages-is-natural-process-and.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/347418931_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/06/the-ten-stages-is-natural-process-and.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The Ten Stages is a natural process, and there is an emotional logic to it.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/08/the-most-important-thing-for-us-at.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/356599968_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/08/the-most-important-thing-for-us-at.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The most important thing for us at the stages is that we are allowed to affirm that our child within</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; 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list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/08/the-basis-of-recovery-in-ten-stages-is.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/356892461_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/08/the-basis-of-recovery-in-ten-stages-is.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The basis of recovery in ten stages is understanding, not blame, guilt or shame.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; 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UPDATED: Stagers Hangouts are moving to Sundays , we need your input to tell us which timezone you are from

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <blockquote class="tr_bq"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaCqVYQ_KEwnkBUSvQjPkqWg5t-qNgoaEQlPMyUIYkSaFRzIOGW0LO1Suau48naqSTdY_s9ZNudw9C4y2Va5G54mTyFct6AzCspUZn9Hlsx2_Z9BRBWfB6n11m_BARhi-bg_M-ccwbqSO9/s1600/help-desk-software-utc-timezones.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="130" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaCqVYQ_KEwnkBUSvQjPkqWg5t-qNgoaEQlPMyUIYkSaFRzIOGW0LO1Suau48naqSTdY_s9ZNudw9C4y2Va5G54mTyFct6AzCspUZn9Hlsx2_Z9BRBWfB6n11m_BARhi-bg_M-ccwbqSO9/s320/help-desk-software-utc-timezones.png" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-large;">Stagers Hangouts are moving to Sundays , we need your input to tell us which timezone you are from and when you wish to HANGOUT.We hope to be on-line 4 p.m GMT next Sunday</span></blockquote>

UPDATED: Stagers Hangouts are moving to Sundays , we need your input to tell us which timezone you are from

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Positive experiences that contradict a traumatised child's negative expectations are critical

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9Nn6lPrHx-qkLaHINLPxHuGfvQS9j1AkIOJhmGb3VNR-4kiTOKGzGOFTYG9CxMo13-7nFAi9Wt8bw0THkM_TskObhk43DG_vAg90NQjCgPV4AdXLA3KOgBPSHeUvJc-sctfWAM-UPYuCk/s1600/imagepot67.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9Nn6lPrHx-qkLaHINLPxHuGfvQS9j1AkIOJhmGb3VNR-4kiTOKGzGOFTYG9CxMo13-7nFAi9Wt8bw0THkM_TskObhk43DG_vAg90NQjCgPV4AdXLA3KOgBPSHeUvJc-sctfWAM-UPYuCk/s1600/imagepot67.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Positive experiences that contradict a traumatised child's negative expectations are critical to helping the mind to readjust itself.Our Stages Study, identifying with the child within opens a new scenario If our child within is removed from the traumatic environment and provided with a compassionate and nurturing , then healing will start to occur and the effects of childhood trauma will be minimised and start to reverse.</span>

Positive experiences that contradict a traumatised child's negative expectations are critical

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We are a gentle, moderated friendly and supportive on-line web based community for the discussion of

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzmRwOPZIHBYwFjTF6n2ugGd1CRiiy-EKBrZ6YXhpmmsNdFRVH9y4nUQWsn-W9ZeuF7S-pgc1Nm5F0evGwm_gxgh8pFJrlqB6PgXT0nBS7gZW1eiT01ER_9jbHqZbyGupsCsBsfP-9zkEA/s1600/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-007.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzmRwOPZIHBYwFjTF6n2ugGd1CRiiy-EKBrZ6YXhpmmsNdFRVH9y4nUQWsn-W9ZeuF7S-pgc1Nm5F0evGwm_gxgh8pFJrlqB6PgXT0nBS7gZW1eiT01ER_9jbHqZbyGupsCsBsfP-9zkEA/s320/1-1-The+Ten+Stages234-007.jpg" width="207" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We are a gentle, moderated friendly and supportive on-line web based community for the discussion of and exploration of recovering relationships related to the ten stages of recovering the self and understanding our relationship to our child within. Not all forums are public or searchable. Registration is required for full access. Without registration, you can still see that Stagers Webinars is an interesting and informative site to visit!For more information thetenstages.blogspot.co.uk is a site to visit.</span>

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“Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity and change.”

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_Ibu5ktvVUDGePTbbMwybLX-tmMA8xLpmC53TuIoGOJbhQTvxMAx_0ACPDbaTBctuGUlR5Ic6uIEPBP07BalRsGU_B3qZuJWjfJ_AaMLvd6Y-9EO0TAySWkN-jkM67aKIUfiE9hfF7uAC/s1600/download+%25281%2529mk.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_Ibu5ktvVUDGePTbbMwybLX-tmMA8xLpmC53TuIoGOJbhQTvxMAx_0ACPDbaTBctuGUlR5Ic6uIEPBP07BalRsGU_B3qZuJWjfJ_AaMLvd6Y-9EO0TAySWkN-jkM67aKIUfiE9hfF7uAC/s1600/download+%25281%2529mk.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /><br /><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">“Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity and change.” <br /><br /> <br /><br />“Imperfections are not inadequacies; they are reminders that we're all in this together."<br /><br /> <br /><br />“Owning our story can be hard but not nearly as difficult as spending our lives running from it. Embracing our vulnerabilities is risky but not nearly as dangerous as giving up on love and belonging and joy—the experiences that make us the most vulnerable. Only when we are brave enough to explore the darkness will we discover the infinite power of our light.”<br /><br /> <br /><br />- Brené Brown</span></span><div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/04/at-stages-we-who-cannot-handle-pain-and.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/339560566_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/04/at-stages-we-who-cannot-handle-pain-and.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">At the Stages We who cannot handle the pain and vulnerability of emotional growth are consigned to stay stuck in our life.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/07/thats-stages-path-vulnerability-and.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/351708650_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/07/thats-stages-path-vulnerability-and.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">That's the stages path - vulnerability and courage.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/05/when-child-within-was-banished-from-our.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/341140596_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/05/when-child-within-was-banished-from-our.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">When the child within was banished from our consciousness we started constantly seeking approval</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/07/unfortunately-or-fortunately-depending.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/352175352_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/07/unfortunately-or-fortunately-depending.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Unfortunately or fortunately depending on your stance pain and a certain amount of suffering are byproduct of the stages growth process.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://recoverystage.blogspot.com/2015/06/the-childhood-mind-is-peculiarly.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/noimg_51_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://recoverystage.blogspot.com/2015/06/the-childhood-mind-is-peculiarly.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The Childhood mind is peculiarly vulnerable to trauma, especially when young - a blind-fear is induced which turns thought off.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/04/stage-6-with-self-reflection-we.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336854436_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/04/stage-6-with-self-reflection-we.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">STAGE 5: With self-reflection we acknowledge where our acting out behaviour has come from</a></li> </ul> </div>

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One of the most intriguing aspects of our Stagers Google Hangouts on Air

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcG98pOy1Zy-7m0jAl2f2ETHeA2WQC627nHqWAgdiDk9EtpunHw3Qgz4ZPJLElyucGDFIc-hf3Ijm0rg7uu8SqOltpt1OFJeqh_HS9AC9f2FnDSaiuVScd-gbA7tddl7TL50xy6lQgEByW/s1600/hangout.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcG98pOy1Zy-7m0jAl2f2ETHeA2WQC627nHqWAgdiDk9EtpunHw3Qgz4ZPJLElyucGDFIc-hf3Ijm0rg7uu8SqOltpt1OFJeqh_HS9AC9f2FnDSaiuVScd-gbA7tddl7TL50xy6lQgEByW/s1600/hangout.png" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;">One of the most intriguing aspects of our Stagers Google Hangouts on Air is how our live audience accesses our Webinars. Each Hangout on Air is broadcast, recorded and uploaded to YouTube. 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One of the most intriguing aspects of our Stagers Google Hangouts on Air

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We must remember our child withins power.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDREL8ilmyz-eOu0bw_QHujx6NpZinuAJrd9aWfv0A_f_0A3-N1FyL1wmcgSGyTUCM3wmsjIbhgFB67wdej7f-3xLOx-u_Utjp5-mx_WvBbSun4Pzpf3-3lib7XUByuo9EflIlWS42oVTi/s1600/inner+child+1.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDREL8ilmyz-eOu0bw_QHujx6NpZinuAJrd9aWfv0A_f_0A3-N1FyL1wmcgSGyTUCM3wmsjIbhgFB67wdej7f-3xLOx-u_Utjp5-mx_WvBbSun4Pzpf3-3lib7XUByuo9EflIlWS42oVTi/s1600/inner+child+1.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />We must remember our child withins power. We are stronger than our circumstances.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We can influence and transcend our environment.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Our natural ability to reason plus the intuitive voice we are born with are invaluable tools that can help to bring us out of undesired circumstances.</span>

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Instead of trying to change someone to be the way you want him or her to be, here's a new idea: send them loving kindness.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn12JKuQmMbE1ISJGeQpNZtPRuY29FIeNQIkTRru4rQuvjDoXUZXzr-Khsr9wj_dD4A7U3BdC1XqbHKGh9C0oKHL0m-B4EcQGqDkiiZ8BWB60VI3k15hTo_eyJPET0A6Nf-B6TUflMEi8R/s1600/imagepot67.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn12JKuQmMbE1ISJGeQpNZtPRuY29FIeNQIkTRru4rQuvjDoXUZXzr-Khsr9wj_dD4A7U3BdC1XqbHKGh9C0oKHL0m-B4EcQGqDkiiZ8BWB60VI3k15hTo_eyJPET0A6Nf-B6TUflMEi8R/s1600/imagepot67.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />Instead of trying to change someone to be the way you want him or her to be, here's a new idea: send them loving kindness.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Accept them, just as they are with no changes and just send them acceptance; we see them happy, healthy and living a vibrant life.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We step out of acceptance and into fear when we try to make people conform to our ideal of what we think they should be.<br /><br /> <br /><br />This is out of alignment for two reasons:<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />1. We are not unconditionally accepting someone when we expect him or her to be any other way than they are.<br /><br /> <br /><br />2. We are not unconditionally accepting ourselves if we are consciously choosing to be in a relationship with someone who isn't meeting our needs.<br /><br /> <br /><br />It is far easier to choose someone who you are compatible with from the beginning than to choose to be in relationship with someone who's potential you see, but who you want to change.<br /><br /> <br /><br />When we choose to only accept someone when they meet our expectations, we are letting our ego run the show. We have no idea what our intuitive voice is calling this person to do or become.<br />If we simply put them in the box of our expectations, we are limiting their growth and closing down intimacy in our relationship with this person. A person doesn't feel loved if they are constantly being judged and weighed and measured.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We are not here to judge and value the people in our lives, we are here to be a compassionate mirror, to show up and to support them in their growth and journey. A person feels accepted when they are seen and understood for who they are RIGHT NOW. Sure, we all have growth points, but that's not the point.<br /><br /> <br /><br />The point is, when we talk about creating rich, fulfilling and accepting relationships, when expectations and judgments creep in, we have gone down the path of our ego.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Let us release our expectations of others and let us release the expectations on ourselves. Let us accept ourselves and the people in our lives right where we are. We are growing daily; let us accept the process instead of trying to only accept a specific outcome that may or may not be for our greatest good.<br /><br /> <br /><br />And, let us choose to be in relationships with people we are compatible with us from the very beginning, instead of trying to change people to be compatible with us.<br /><br /> <br /></span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #0b175f; font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;">Related articles</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://recoverystage.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-joy-of-living-self-approved-life-in.html" style="border-radius: 2px; 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Instead of trying to change someone to be the way you want him or her to be, here's a new idea: send them loving kindness.

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Less mystery, more living in our own recovered healed reality

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggKRJMYOylKU9LYhX5IUFqiaugGQGeO4oXKUcefyay2j38EbvW6Tgbo6xfhiGc4WHPaBEOvHEytvq_Flrs6yOjQIL2RuQXcq42z57c7WXXazRx0l3qKGkJasMUpZR2Pw9Peiyq410V9MBW/s1600/10428672_10154666833615702_3280276145782273141_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggKRJMYOylKU9LYhX5IUFqiaugGQGeO4oXKUcefyay2j38EbvW6Tgbo6xfhiGc4WHPaBEOvHEytvq_Flrs6yOjQIL2RuQXcq42z57c7WXXazRx0l3qKGkJasMUpZR2Pw9Peiyq410V9MBW/s320/10428672_10154666833615702_3280276145782273141_n.jpg" width="240" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">In our recovery we all crave security, stability and peace of mind – and here, by delving into what our living processes can do, and deflecting attention from our origins and who we thought we really were, we can see that it does come about, that it is real, rational, and what’s more, healthier form of recovery. </span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">The more streams of recovery and consent, the greater the stability, which is the essence of any real recovery. Less mystery, more living in our own recovered healed reality.</span></div>

Less mystery, more living in our own recovered healed reality

In our recovery we all crave security, stability and peace of mind – and here, by delving into what our living processes can do, and defle...

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